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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce today's guests.
They're amazing on stage. Ivy and Min Woo Hyuk!
(Min Woo Hyuk and Ivy, the lead actors of "Ben-Hur")
As time passes, she becomes...
- slightly more beautiful. - Exactly. She becomes prettier.
- Her beauty shines. - Slightly?
So You!
(So You, the singer who becomes prettier every day)
Hello.
- He returned to Hello in glory. - That's right.
Lee Eui Woong!
It's nice to meet you all.
(Lee Eui Woong, the star of today's show is you!)
Lee Eui Woong!
(Screaming)
(The audience's reaction shows how popular he is.)
Where is Tae Joon?
Tae Joon is filming his drama overseas right now.
- I heard he went to the US. - That's right.
- We invited a special MC today. - Who is he?
- Eui Woong is our special MC. - Is he Eui Woong?
- Did he become this successful? - Yes, he did.
(The episode aired on March 7, 2016)
(He's so handsome.)
(Eui Woong appeared on Hello as a non-celebrity.)
(His handsome face became the talk of the town.)
(Shy)
- His handsome face drew attention. - That's right.
(He was only in 9th grade!)
(He makes their hearts flutter.)
How much do your parents make you work at their stores?
They run stationery, jewelry, and underwear shops.
- They run 3 stores. - 3 stores?
I work at those three stores.
All three stores?
(He told that he was working too much at his parents' stores.)
I'm in the broadcasting club at school,
and I'm the student president.
(He's also a student president.)
- That means you get good grades. - What did you say?
(He turns out to be a golden boy!)
Eui Woong, how do you feel...
now that you watched the old video?
It brought me back the old memories.
On my way here, I felt like I was coming to my hometown.
Hometown? That's why he looked so excited.
- He returned home in glory. - That's right.
(It's good to be back here!)
Ivy, it's been a while since you last came on Hello.
- It's been a while. - How have you been?
- The original musical "Ben-Hur"... - "Ben-Hur"?
- Many of you must know the novel. - Is it an original musical?
It's a great novel, right?
This is the first time making it a musical play.
Do you play Ben-Hur?
No. I play the character who gives Ben-Hur hard times.
- I see. - It's an evil character.
I'm worried that I'm sitting next to him.
He's so kind. When he talks,
he looks at me in the eyes.
That makes my heart flutter.
(I don't think I can host the show because of him.)
- I heard you live alone. - Me?
- Yes. - No, no.
- That's not true. - He's been married for many years.
- Is he married? - Yes, he is.
I'm sorry. I don't watch TV often.
(She's sulking.)
I sleep when "Immortal Songs" is aired.
(When will Yeong Ja's life bloom?)
We have three worries today.
Show us the keywords please.
"The Passionate Man".
- "Six Evil Sisters". - "Boyfriend's Imagination".
"Boyfriend's Imagination" is a story of a woman in her 30s.
Hello.
You sound like an elderly woman.
That's because I'm so tired.
I'm a woman in my 30s in an affectionate relationship.
My boyfriend...
loves me so very much.
He loves me so much...
that he imagines all sorts of things every night.
"Honey, where are you?"
"I'm on a bus."
"On a bus? Then, why is it so quiet?"
"Are you really on a bus? Send me a photo to prove it."
It's quiet on a bus, obviously.
"I just sent you the photo. Are we good now?"
"What is this? Why did you cut off the passenger next to you?"
- "Are you with a man?" - Oh, my.
"You're seeing another man, aren't you?"
Gosh.
That's right. My boyfriend has delusional jealousy.
"Honey, what are you doing now?"
"Why aren't you replying to my text?"
"You're making me feel uneasy."
"Are you seeing another man?"
"Are you cheating on me?"
"If you are, I'm going to kill myself!"
He never gives me a break.
Even when I was with him, he said,
"Honey, whom are you talking to on the phone right now?"
"My dad."
"I think you talk to your dad too often these days."
"By the way, was it really your dad?"
I don't understand why he can't trust me. He even said,
"I can't stand it anymore. I'm too anxious."
"I should do something so you don't think of seeing another man."
"Let's register our marriage first."
He's suffocating me more and more.
I'm tired of his endless questions and suspicions.
What should I do now?
(Please help me stop my boyfriend from being suspicious of me!)
Please come out!
(Who is the girlfriend of the overly jealous man?)
(Kwon Oh Kyung)
(She walks down the slide.)
(She's unique.)
Your letter said that your boyfriend is overly suspicious of you.
Please tell us how serious it is.
(Where should I begin?)
- He's always distrustful of others. - I see.
He never believes what others tell him as it is.
He tends to jump to conclusions.
- So... - He's suspicious of other people?
- It's not just you? - It's not just you?
- That's right. - He's suspicious of all the others.
Yes.
- My boyfriend runs a restaurant. - Yes.
When his employees can't be at work because they're sick,
he thinks they're faking it.
He's suspicious of his employees too.
Also, about physical touches...
- Physical touches? - Yes.
He asks me if it was good, and I say I like it.
Then, he asks if I lied to please him.
- He's suspicious of that? - He's suspicious of that too?
After physical contact,
- he asks if you lied about it? - That's a stupid thing to ask.
(He's always suspicious of me.)
- You even had to send him a photo. - That's right.
Does he ask for that wherever you go?
Yes. I send him a photo of me most of the time.
He asks me if I'm really in a taxi or on a bus on my way to work.
He asks me if I'm really at home or at the gym.
He always needs to see a photo.
He really needs to know where you are.
Why do you have to send a photo of you at the gym?
My boyfriend hates it when I wear tight clothes.
- At the gym? - He doesn't want others to see you.
Even though I dress as he told me,
- he doesn't believe me. - Even though you told him.
He wants to see what you're wearing.
He wants to see how I'm dressed.
So I send him a photo of me.
We prepared some photos of her that she sent to her boyfriend.
Please show us.
That's when I went to my hometown.
I sent him the photo of my train ticket,
- but he didn't believe me. - "Will you see another man?"
She sent photos wherever she went...
to prove that she told the truth.
- What is that photo? - That's the gym, right?
- Yes, it is. - That's the time she went home.
- That's right. - Oh, my.
- Is that your clock at home? - Yes, it is.
- What's that? - I was going to work.
- To prove that you're in a taxi? - Yes.
- I was spending time with my dad. - He looks very young.
He asked if he was really my dad.
(He wanted her to prove that he's her dad.)
That's too much. Why would she lie about her dad?
Can't you just stop sending him photos?
If I don't send him photos, he wouldn't just suspect me.
He imagines a lot of things.
Have you ever had a fight with him because you didn't send him a photo?
- When we just started dating, - Yes.
he asked me to send a photo because it was too quiet in the bus.
I thought it wasn't right for him to ask me to do that.
- So I didn't send him a photo. - I see.
That was the first time we had a big fight.
He said we wouldn't have fought if I had sent him a photo.
He didn't believe me in the end.
He thought a man took me home.
I heard he was suspicious of you when you talked to our staff member.
As the interview was taking long, he asked if it was really the writer.
I sent him the image of my phone screen.
Interviews usually takes long to ask our guests about everything.
- Did you send him the image? - That's what she sent to him.
- Is that the image she sent to him? - It was taken during the call.
- "Are you talking with a man?" - Did you talk to two writers?
- The caller ID was "Hello 2". - "What's the phone number?"
I have a question. When a man is overly suspicious of his girlfriend,
he has his reasons in most cases.
- Did she do something suspicious? - That's right.
No, I didn't do anything suspicious.
If I had done, I wouldn't think that it's unfair.
But I've done nothing suspicious.
Could it be that her boyfriend had his heart broken before he met her?
- He got traumatized? It's possible. - That's possible.
His ex-girlfriend? All right. Let's meet with her boyfriend.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is the overtly suspicious boyfriend?)
She said you asked her to prove that she was talking to our writer.
- She said her story was chosen. - Yes.
But I didn't understand that this is a worry.
- That's why I was... - Everyone says the same thing.
- That's why you were suspicious? - Yes.
When she sends you photos of the places she goes,
does it make you feel relieved? Why do you ask for that?
Because I live in Seoul, and she lives in Anyang,
- we can't see each other often. - I see.
It's because I can't be with her.
What about the gym? She works out there, and there are other people.
I have something to say about that.
She told me something.
She goes to the gym at 9pm.
She said that she has a nickname at the gym.
The workout trainers call her Nine O'clock Queen.
(They call me Nine O'clock Queen.)
- That made me feel... - It bothered you, right?
I would feel good if she looks pretty only to me,
but the fact that other men thought she's pretty bothered me.
Why did you tell him when you knew he's jealous?
Is that even true?
It's an honor to meet you.
Are you really called Nine O'clock Queen?
I heard that from one of the workout trainers.
It's an irony.
- She knew it'd bother him, - That's right.
but she wanted to see how he would react. Am I right?
I wanted to brag about my nickname without considering that.
Did you not think that he would react more sensitively?
- She couldn't think of that. - That's right.
(Why did I tell him that?)
(This is why I'm suspicious of her.)
We asked her if she had done anything suspicious before.
She said she had done nothing.
Can't you trust her?
I can't get in touch with her for about two hours after work.
One day, I called her repeatedly.
When she finally picked up, I couldn't hear anything.
You can hear people getting out, the doors opening,
and the bus stopping over the phone.
However, I couldn't hear anything.
Why didn't you answer your phone for two hours?
It's not like that. I usually fall asleep when I'm on the bus...
- on my way home after work. - Her phone is on vibrate mode...
- or silent mode. - I always put it on vibrate mode.
It can happen depending on the situation.
It's not that you can hear noises when you're on a bus.
When she arrived, I did a test in my car.
(I did a test in my car.)
- Pardon? - He came to see me.
- What kind of test? - He came to see her?
She said I couldn't hear anything because of the noise cancellation.
So she turned on the noise cancelling mode in my car...
with the radio on, and I called her. I could hear the radio.
That made me really upset.
- You can't trust her at all, right? - He was upset.
- Be honest with us. - It's because he can't trust her.
It still remains an unsolved mystery, right?
Yes, it is.
If you don't believe what she said,
that means you think she cheated on you, right?
People around her...
- Why would you care about them? - might offer her a ride home.
I think he's easily swayed by what others say.
It didn't happen just once.
When I was on a bus, and he said it was too quiet,
so I sent him a photo of me.
- To prove you were on the bus? - He couldn't hear anything either.
It was late at night when she proved she was on the bus.
It was early evening when she didn't.
- At early evening... - Then, why did you suspect her...
because it was quiet when it was late?
(Why were you suspicious of her late at night?)
I think I say that habitually.
- Exactly. - Do you like a mystery novels?
I watch "Detective Conan" often though.
(I like an animation about a detective.)
You want to prove what you guess and suspect is right,
but nothing proved to be right.
- The culprit always gets caught. - He's driving me crazy.
(Is he saying that I'm the culprit?)
You don't believe anything she tells you.
- Without trust, you feel anxious. - Yes.
Why do you keep seeing her when she makes you anxious?
It's because I like her so much.
Do you think that she can't cheat on you even if she wants to...
- if you keep checking on her? - That's right.
Some of the girls I dated before...
- cheated on me. - I see.
That makes me feel afraid. I like her so much...
- that I don't want to lose her. - Okay.
I think this isn't the first time talking about this. When he talks,
she avoids looking into his eyes.
- She seems very tired of it. - She looks dazed too.
(She's tired from the situation.)
It feels like affection at first.
- That's right. - It feels like he cares about you.
Once it feels like obsession,
- she'll lose her interest in you. - That's right.
Have you ever been distressed...
because he worried about unnecessary things?
- I'm living alone now. - You're living alone?
Yes. Even during the daytime,
he doesn't like it when I order delivery food.
He's worried the delivery man might do something to me.
- He's worried for nothing. - He imagines a lot of things.
- Why does he worry so much? - Is there anything more?
One day, I went to my friend's house.
- I went home late at night by taxi. - I see.
He yelled at me for staying there until that hour.
- The streets are so dark. - Is that so?
No one would know even if someone kidnaps her.
There's no security cameras on the way to her house.
It's good that you try to prevent bad things,
- but you worry excessively about... - That's right.
what hasn't even happened. Don't you think so?
When I watch news shows or shows like "I Would Like to Know"...
or "Crime Scene Investigation, Siren"...
I watch programs like these often.
- This world we live in is... - It's a dangerous world.
- It makes you worry. - It's dangerous.
That's why I'm worried about her so much.
He just cares so much about his girlfriend.
He thinks of me as his possession.
He tells me not to wear leggings or shorts even when I step out briefly.
- I once visited his restaurant. - I see.
- I wore a skirt to impress him. - Yes.
His friend and employees were there.
He told me off for wearing a short skirt in front of everyone.
- In front of everyone? - Yes. I just apologized to him...
and laughed it off because of the other people.
- But he didn't stop yelling. - Gosh.
I said I understood, and he should stop it.
I think he was embarrassed. He threw tissues at me.
(He threw tissues at me.)
- He threw tissues at you? - He threw screwed up tissues.
He must've thrown it on the floor.
He says he loves me, I don't feel it when he acts like that.
What else did he do?
- We went to his friend's bar. - Yes.
- I was wearing a V-neck T-shirt. - A V-neck T-shirt.
My shoelaces were undone, so I hunched over to tie them.
He yelled, "What are you doing? Why are you so clumsy?"
- It made me even more embarrassed. - I understand.
- In front of his friends? - Yes, his friends were there.
When a man sees his girlfriend wearing a short skirt,
he could cover her legs with an apron in a restaurant.
- That's right. - Do men do that?
I mean, that can be a way.
When she hunches over in a V-neck T-shirt,
- I see. - he could tell her to be careful,
or he could cover her with his hands.
- That's right. - If you yell at her,
wouldn't that make your friends look at her?
When I threw the tissues at her,
her skirt was too short.
I could see her underwear when she sat down.
I got so angry.
The other people might've seen it too.
You thought they might've seen it.
Why do you tell her not to wear leggings when stepping out briefly?
I told you that it's really dark around her house.
It's a pitch dark street.
Is she wears black leggings, you can't see what's under them.
That's not what I'm worried about.
Many men asked her for her number.
But I'm sure they didn't ask for her number because of leggings.
What I want to know is...
if seeing a girl in leggings or a short skirt...
makes you feel aroused so much that you can't control yourself?
- No, it's not like that. - You think all the other men do?
Men don't think of bad things because a girl is wearing leggings.
She has such pretty legs.
(We don't care! We don't look at her legs!)
That's why I'm worried.
- Every man has his own philosophy, - Everyone has his own preference.
- and moral principles. - That's right.
If that's true, no crime would have happened.
I understand how you feel...
when she wears a short skirt or a revealing outfit.
I understand that you want to keep her safe.
However you shouldn't cross the line. You yelled at her...
for how she was dressed or how she acted. She must be stressed out.
You did it continuously.
(It's a problem that you force your standards on her.)
Is there any particular type of girl you want her to be?
What type do you like in general?
I like a lady-like woman like Lee Young Ae.
Jang Geum in "The Jewel in the Palace"?
(The woman figure in the Joseon Dynasty)
- Gosh. - That's unbelievable.
She came to my restaurant to help me on a Sunday.
While she was learning how to use the cash register from my employee,
he touched her slightly.
He told me what happened later.
- What did he touch? - What did he touch?
He said he touched her chest accidentally.
- While she was hunching over? - While she was leaning like this.
- His employee is weird too. - Why would he tell that?
He's so weird.
Did he tell you like this? "I touched her chest, sir."
- Exactly. - He was my friend.
(Even in this situation,)
(he's siding with his friend!)
- What's wrong with that... - He said...
It's understandable that they touched each other while moving.
- Why would he tell that? - What exactly did he say to you?
- He said that she was careless. - What?
- His friend is weird. - I don't believe this.
(He has a bad friend!)
- His friend is so weird. - He's the one who's careless.
- You seem more suspicious than her. - Would you like some water?
- That disappointed me the most. - I don't believe you.
I don't believe you. Didn't you just make that up?
Who would tell that to his friend?
Your friend is weird.
Before that happened, I yelled at her for hunching over carelessly.
- For V-necks? - Even for V-necks.
She confessed after the incident.
- I told her she's careless. - My goodness.
His girlfriend just said...
that's what makes her very sad.
Of course, it does.
Look at her face. She's in despair.
He imagines based on what his friend said...
- and treats her badly. - Right.
How do you feel when you hear that?
He said it's wrong for his friend to say such things,
but I'm the cause of whole situation.
He said it's your fault?
Did he tell you to apologize?
I didn't want to make an apology for it.
- Did he tell you to apologize? - Is that what he said?
He said it's my fault, so I must admit it.
She didn't do anything wrong.
There's nothing she can do about them sticking out.
I didn't tell her to apologize.
Am I wrong?
There's nothing she can do.
She can't go like this when she kisses.
They stick out. There's nothing she can do.
I didn't tell her to apologize,
but I told her she should be more careful about it.
If her breast touches your friend's body by accident,
why is it her fault?
He should've been careful too.
Of course I got upset at him too.
He should've been careful.
- You should've ended it there. - He shouldn't have called.
You should've told him he should've been careful.
She didn't do that on purpose.
If your girlfriend was trying to seduce him...
If she tried to put her arms around him.
Yes. Then it's a problem, but that's not the case here.
If you say she's careless because of what happened accidentally,
you're a very weird person.
She didn't do it on purpose.
You can't blame her.
If that's what my boyfriend says,
I'd be very upset and sad.
You have your friends beside you.
- She's been wearing sunglasses. - I know. What for?
What's your relationship with him?
Oh, I'm her friend.
- Oh, the girlfriend's friend? - Yes.
Why are you wearing sunglasses?
I didn't know the shooting was this week,
so I got double eyelid surgery done two days ago.
(She got double eyelid surgery done two days ago.)
(Thank you for joining today.)
- You're the best. - You're amazing.
You should be at home resting,
but you're here to support your friend.
That's right.
She's so nice.
(A round of applause for their beautiful friendship)
She must be your best friend.
Thank you very much for joining us.
Tell us what made her sad and what made you upset.
When she hangs out with her friends,
it's common for her to receive so many calls from her boyfriend.
She has to report everything to him.
Even when it's just the two of us, he doesn't let her hang up,
so I just sit there doing nothing.
Also, every time we go somewhere, she has to send him a picture.
She's like, "I'm sorry, but please take a picture with me."
We have to take a picture together and send it to him.
He also touches her more than usual when there are people around.
- To show off. - To show that she's his boyfriend.
I often get embarrassed...
when he touches her.
Was there anything that made you worry...
when you see them?
There was one time when we went on a double date.
My boyfriend and her boyfriend...
were walking together in front of us.
But they didn't even look at us,
so my friend commented...
on how they didn't even care about their girlfriends,
then he said she insulted him in front of other people.
Then he dragged her to the corner and yelled at her in public.
Every time that happens...
I'm worried that his behaviors will change to domestic violence...
especially when there's been a lot of articles...
on domestic violence.
He makes me wonder if he really loves her...
when he yells at her in front of other people and embarrasses her.
I even heard him swearing at her when they were on the phone.
- How? - It was about that breast incident.
I think it's worse than last year.
He's gotten worse.
- It's worse? - He's gotten worse.
He's way worse than before.
This is not any different...
from a minor domestic violence.
He embarrasses her in front of other people for wearing shorts.
He doesn't have to go physical to be violent.
This is a verbal abuse.
Pass the mic to the person next to you.
What's your relationship with them?
I'm his friend.
- The boyfriend's? - The boyfriend's friend.
Do you understand her worry? What's your opinion?
I think my friend has a problem.
You didn't know until now?
No, because I'm not interested in other people's relationships.
He's even somewhat obsessed with his male friends.
- With his male friends? - What?
- Even with his male friends? - A bit.
If my friends decide to meet up,
I'd need to call them...
to ask where they are,
then he has to be the first one to receive the call.
Does he get upset if you call other friend first?
Yes.
I'm also married,
but he calls me so often...
- that my wife doubts me. - What?
She thinks I'm cheating on her.
How many calls do you have to make to make his wife suspicious?
- How many calls in a day? - Over five phone calls.
That's a lot.
Is he his boyfriend?
When he hangs up the last call, he doesn't say this often,
but he says, "I love you."
(He finishes with "I love you.")
I don't get it.
Is that true?
When he's sober? When he's not drunk?
Sometimes drunk, sometimes sober.
- Can I speak? - Yes.
He's the one who always says I love you first.
No. Never.
What's going on between you two?
I swear it's not true.
- What's going on between you two? - What's your relationship?
It's like saying I love you to a friend...
when we're just talking on the phone.
That's understandable.
It's nothing like that. I'm not crazy.
But then he never hangs up.
He asks me first, "Do you not love me?"
I want to hang up,
- You say, "I love you"? - so I say I love you,
then my wife says she can't believe what we're doing.
Obviously. It's so weird for your wife.
(I guess our friendship ends here.)
He likes to check with everyone.
Does he seek for affection?
What do you think? Why do you think he does that?
Rather than obsession, he's more like seeking for affection.
There are many friends who like him,
but even though they all like him, he doubts them.
That's kind of sad.
When was the time he hurt you the most?
He wants to register for marriage because he's nervous.
(Let's register for marriage because I'm nervous.)
We're not only ready to get married yet,
but since he doubts me so much,
I don't even know if we can carry on with this relationship.
Even your relationship's not stable.
- You must wait. - When you say...
you want to register for marriage first because you're nervous,
she might find it insulting...
because you think your girlfriend...
would stop cheating on you...
since you're married.
That's what he means by it.
Right. She's not cheating on him or anything right now.
Let's say you really register for marriage.
When you register for marriage,
do you think you'll stop doubting her?
You will, right?
Be honest.
I'm not sure.
- That means you won't stop. - That's why you must change now.
You're pretty handsome,
and you have your own business,
but are you not confident in yourself?
As her boyfriend?
I think I don't deserve her.
- If you think so, - Why do you think so?
you should treat her nicely.
Why do you think you're not worth for her?
I have pretty low self-esteem,
so I'm worried that I might lose someone so nice.
You keep saying that you're not worth for her,
and I'm not sure where you get those ideas,
but I disagree, and I think you're pretty attractive.
If you stop being so obsessive...
and stop asking her to send pictures of every place she goes,
I think she'd stay beside you.
Why are you worried about it when she's not moving?
As long as you stop doubting her, there's no problem.
She's not here to break up with him,
but she's here to improve her relationship.
Tell your boyfriend what's on your mind.
There are many good people in the world,
and things don't happen like you think.
I want you to stop jumping to the conclusion.
It's okay for you to be interested, but you should never doubt her.
You should be careful now.
If you continue even after this, she'll be put off by you.
- Think well before you speak. - Think well.
You say you don't deserve her,
but this nice woman chose you.
You should be confident in yourself.
- Stop now. - What's wrong with you?
Let's start voting from Woo Hyuk.
I think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry. Not yet.
I think you need to have a change of thinking.
Because your girlfriend applied to be on a show...
which the whole nation watches.
It means you're my boyfriend.
It means I'm your girlfriend.
I think this is an opportunity for you to be happy.
I think the more you love, the more personal time you need.
- Stop trying to own her. - So You.
Stop trying to have her.
I think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button now.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Okay, good. - Time's up.
Please tell your girlfriend that you're sorry...
and about what you think.
I'm sorry I didn't realize how much you were worried...
until I got here today.
From now on,
I'll think more positively.
Be more confident.
I'll try my best...
- to change in a good way. - Say "I love you."
I love you so much.
Good job.
(She's crying.)
Say something to her friend too. She came even after the surgery.
I'm very grateful that she came here today.
She's protecting her.
Crying is so bad after the double eyelid surgery.
It's so bad.
It'll get infected.
All right. Please show us the result.
(The result)
"Boyfriend's Imagination".
(We're expecting many votes.)
Many ladies in the audience pressed the button.
- Will it be 158? No. - It's still pretty high.
(The story received 148 votes.)
All right. The next story is entitled "Six Evil Sisters".
Hello, I'm a 12-year-old who has 6 older sisters.
Not all of them are actually siblings though.
- Some of them must be cousins. - Yes.
From my sister to five cousins, all of us are like a big family.
But they're always like, "Get me some water."
I say, "You get it yourself."
Then they go, "Hurry up."
"Young Jin, bring the remote control."
"I'm doing my homework now."
"I said, the remote control. Blame yourself for being the youngest."
My third sister goes, "Young Jin, come here. Hurry up."
"Why? What's up?"
"Turn the light off on your way out."
The other sisters are the same. I don't need to keep going, right?
I'm basically like their butler.
One day, the sixth sister said, "Young Jin, get me some water."
I said, "I have a fever. My temperature is 40°C."
"Don't feign it. Just go get some water."
"And bring the remote control too."
"Also, go down to the security office and pick up my parcel."
- "You better get moving." - He had a high fever.
When I try to rebel, they're like, "You rude brat."
"How dare you talk back to me?"
I've tolerated enough, and I'm so done with my overbearing sisters.
Could all of you at Hello please teach my sisters...
a serious lesson today?
(Please teach my sisters a lesson.)
Eui Woong, you must be sick and tired of running such errands.
- Your parents used to be like that. - Yes, that's right.
As I was listening to the story, it almost gave me a deja vu.
I thought, "Oh, it sounds like my story."
I might cry when I meet Young Jin in person.
I actually just met him outside.
He seemed very intimidated.
(He's already intimidated.)
- He really was. - He was standing like this.
When I told him to cheer up, he went like this and said, "Okay."
- He was already intimidated. - Right.
I'm also the youngest of my siblings. I have sisters.
- You do? - I have two elder sisters.
When they started menstruating,
I had to buy menstrual pads for my two sisters as well as my mom.
Are you serious?
In our neighborhood, there was only one store that sold menstrual pads.
I remember picking them up and covering them in newspaper.
I used to feel so embarrassed.
Why did they make you do it?
I'm also the youngest one. I have a sister and two brothers.
When I was little, they used to adore me.
They started making me run errands when I got into elementary school.
I thought it was weird because they kept making me do everything.
So I intentionally made mistakes when they asked me to do things.
I'd break things on purpose and be like, "Oh, no."
A little while after that, they stopped asking me to do things.
(His trick freed him from running errands.)
Let's meet him now. Please come on out!
(Who's the stressed-out errand boy?)
(Cho Young Jin)
- He's cute. - He seems intimidated.
- How cute. - He's so adorable.
He's really cute.
- Come and sit here. - My goodness!
- Young Jin. - Please have a seat here.
- Young Jin, get me some water. - He looks intimidated.
(Yeong Ja is just kidding.)
Young Jin, there's water behind you.
(His body responds automatically.)
- Young Jin, get me some water. - He does it automatically.
(He's so polite.)
Young Jin, can you give this to Dong Yeob?
- My gosh, you're so sweet. - It's okay. Don't worry.
- I was just kidding. - Young Jin, have a seat.
- Sit here. - Gosh, I feel so bad for him.
(He looks so sad for some reason.)
- My goodness. - How cute.
- He's so cute! - I think there's a bit of this.
- Our minds work in strange ways. - I feel so bad for him.
- I want to make him do things. - Exactly.
- Totally. - There's that psychology.
- He's adorable. - Please introduce yourself to us.
Hello.
I'm so stressed out because of my sisters.
I'm Cho Young Jin, and I'm in fifth grade.
- It's nice to meet you. - Hi, Young Jin!
You said you have six sisters.
Do you live with all of them?
No.
- Then what's the situation? - We practically live together.
Practically.
They sleep over at our place all the time.
Whenever they come over, they make me run errands for them.
They're mean. How can they do that to you when you're this cute?
I know.
Do they come over to see you?
To see the youngest one.
- You? - No.
- You have a younger sibling? - Yes.
- A newborn. - They come over to see the baby.
- How... - Mr. Cho.
- Mr. Cho? - Can I call you Young Jin?
- When did it all start? - She called him Mr. Cho.
They only asked me to do little things when I was 6 or 7.
- Little things? - Like what? Give us examples.
They asked me to bring their phones and turn off the lights for them.
But after I got into elementary school, they started asking me...
to pick up things from stores and hang or fold clean laundry.
Hang and fold clean laundry?
- Even laundry? - They're making him do housework.
Don't you think you can do that much for your sisters?
I'd appreciate it if they don't go overboard.
One time, they made me run an errand when I had homework to do.
I ended up going to bed at 2am that day.
- At 2am? - He's only in 5th grade.
What did they make you do at 2am?
- I had homework to do, and they... - Oh, I see.
- He had no time to do his homework. - You stayed up to do your homework?
- Yes. - Do they help you with homework?
I mean, they work you so hard.
They'd be sleeping at 2am.
They don't help you at all?
- Not at all. - I see. They don't help you.
What was the most embarrassing errand you've run for them?
Anything you absolutely didn't want to do?
My sister made me pick up feminine products for her.
Yes! I knew it.
- Go on. - I was so embarrassed,
- but I still did it. - It's nothing embarrassing.
Just ask for it confidently. "I need menstrual pads, please."
- Boys his age must feel that way. - It must be embarrassing.
Don't do it, then. Tell them that you can't do it.
Then they'd hit me. subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
- What? - They hit you?
- Where do they hit you? - They're scary.
They've smacked my head, saying that I'm rude.
They say things like that often.
- You've been putting up with them. - Yes.
Why did you decide to send us your story?
I was going to try to keep on tolerating it,
- He must've reached his limit. - but they kept getting worse.
I decided to come here because my patience has been exhausted.
All of your sisters are here. Aren't you scared?
I am scared.
What if they say that you embarrassed them nationwide...
and give you even more work?
(What if they get mad and give him more work?)
Then I'll have to come back on the show.
He'll come back here.
- Good. Don't give up, okay? - Bring it on! Let's do this!
I see his sisters. Don't they look like the girls in "Sunny"?
- Totally. - The movie, "Sunny".
- Look at the one with crossed arms. - They're so charismatic.
Let's meet them now. Hello.
(Hello)
Please take turns and introduce yourselves to us.
Hello, I'm the eldest one, Kim Hye Jin.
I'm the 2nd eldest one. I'm 23, and my name is Kim Soo Jin.
I'm the 3rd one, Park Hye In. I'm 18.
I'm 17. I'm the 4th one, Jung Ga Yeon.
I'm the 5th one, Jung Seo Yeon. I'm 16.
Hello, I'm 16. I'm the 6th one.
- Are you his real sister? - She must be your sister.
All right. We have all six of them here with us.
Please raise your hand if you understand why he's stressed out.
- No one? - None of them raised hands.
Then raise your hand if you make him run errands for you often.
Please raise your hand if you do.
(Laughing)
Who's the worst one out of all six of them?
My real sister and Hye Jin.
Hye Jin is scary. She actually treats me like her butler.
She calls me her butler, underling, and minion.
- She calls you a minion? - Yes.
You're much older than him.
Why do you make him run so many errands for you?
No one in our family thinks...
that it's strange.
- He's everyone's errand boy. - Your whole family?
Yes, all of us do.
- They must take it for granted. - I'm not just talking about us.
From Mom to Aunt and Uncle, everyone makes him run errands.
- Everyone? Even your mom and aunt? - Yes.
He said he doesn't have time to do his homework because of all errands.
That's just an excuse.
He's supposed to do a little bit every day,
but he always does it all at once. He leaves it...
- until the last minute. - Do you really do that?
Yes. I should've been more thoughtful.
(I should've been more thoughtful.)
- He's adorable. - He's so cute.
How adorable.
You have many sisters. Why do you always ask him?
If I ask Soo Jin, she tells Hye In to do it.
- Then Hye In tells Ga Yeon. - It goes down the ladder.
Ga Yeon would make Seo Yeon do it. In the end, Young Jin does it.
So now, I just ask him directly.
Give us an example. Show us how it usually works.
(Hello Theater, "Six Evil Sisters")
- You want soda. - Soo Jin, pick up some soda.
(The eldest one wants soda.)
Hye In, Hye Jin wants soda.
Hey, go buy some.
You go.
You should go.
Young Jin.
- Is this what happens? - That's why it's always his sister.
It explains why his sister does it most often.
We're just wondering because he's still very young.
Isn't it too much to ask him to pick up feminine products?
- Yes, it used to stress me out. - I never asked him to do that.
Who was it, then?
(Let's track down the suspect.)
Young Jin, tell us.
Who made you pick up feminine products? Tell us.
Did you go buy it on a whim?
- My gosh. - I mean...
(Did he just make it up?)
Young Jin, we might get the wrong idea. You need to tell us the truth.
We'll scold you if you say you weren't thoughtful.
- Tell us. Who was it? - Whose was it?
- My real sister. - It was your sister.
Hey! Eun Ji, don't you think it's too much?
You should buy it yourself.
How can you make your brother do it? You don't remember?
- Does the microphone not work? - It wasn't me.
You didn't do it? He said it was you.
Was it me?
Was it really her?
- What happened was... - Were you not thoughtful enough?
It could've been from one of the older ones.
- Is that what happened? - He may not know who it was.
Tell us what happened.
My mom and I were at my mom's store.
Eun Ji was at home, and she asked Mom to pick up stockings.
But Mom asked me to do it, so I picked it up for her.
(His mom asked him to do it.)
- It was for stockings. - Stockings?
Yes. That's what you meant by "feminine product"?
Is that what you meant?
I wasn't thoughtful enough.
(Chan Woo is embarrassed.)
- I should've been thoughtful. - We jumped into conclusion.
- I see. - It is a feminine product indeed.
It might be embarrassing for him to go buy stockings.
- Yes. He's a man. - Of course.
- It is for a young boy. - Yes.
Buying it is embarrassing.
I don't know which one of them it was.
But one of them asked me to bring a pad.
- A pad. - She told me to get her one.
- She told me to get her one. - She told you to bring her a pad.
- She asked for it. - Was she in the bathroom?
It was embarrassing, but I did it anyway.
Which of them asked him...
- to bring a pad to the bathroom? - Who asked him?
- All of you have. - All of you.
All of you?
The third one said, "We all did it."
Buying stockings isn't so bad.
Eui Woong used to sell women's lingerie.
Weren't there times when you got embarrassed?
I was embarrassed, but I just covered my eyes and did it.
You sold stockings and lingerie.
But I was 16 years old.
- Young Jin is... - Even younger.
Have you seen a young boy like him buying stockings?
- No, never. - Never.
It doesn't happen.
By the way, why do you...
all gather at his house?
I have a husband.
When he pulls an all-nighter, I have to be at home alone with my baby.
- You are married. - I am married.
My baby is now eight months old.
It's more comfortable...
to stay with Young Jin.
Baby...
- Baby... - Wait.
(Booing)
Why do you scold him if he doesn't do you a favor?
It's a little frustrating. He's a little slow.
I would tell him to fetch something. I can see it with my eyes,
but he won't get it.
- "Fetch it." - You can just go get it.
- I am doing something else. - What?
- I was doing something. - You were doing something.
Why did you hit his head?
It's really annoying to be hit on the back of the head.
Do you have anger management problem?
A little bit.
Why did you hit his head?
- Everyone hits his head. - Everyone does it.
She said everyone hits him on the head.
Let's ask the second one. What do you usually ask him to do?
- On weekends. - On weekends...
On weekends...
(What do I make him to do?)
What was that? That was scary!
She's even worse than the first one.
She suddenly changed.
I ask him to do menial things.
I ask him to get water for me.
If I'm in the bathroom, I ask him to get me a towel.
Why do you make him to those things?
You can get water for yourself.
But I...
(She puts on a straight face.)
I am always doing something.
She's so scary.
Her face changes all the time.
It must've been tough, Young Jin.
She suddenly puts on a straight face.
And I'm trying to teach Young Jin...
the basic manners he must know as a man.
- That's part of the reason. - What are those manners?
I want him to know that women have to be protected.
I want Young Jin to know the basic manners and to be kind-hearted.
That's why he's popular among girls and get a lot of love letters.
He's a class vice president at his school too.
Are you saying he became the president thanks to you?
Right. While staying with us,
he became bubblier.
- He's not bubbly. - He's...
That's him being bubbly.
- Were you gloomy before? - He's gotten bubbly.
Was I?
- He's very sarcastic. - "Was I?" He's charming.
What do you think about what she said?
Are you popular at school?
I am not. I am not that popular.
I didn't become the class vice president because of her.
Of course not. It's because you were good.
I had never used my manners at school.
She says girls need to be protected.
But I don't want to protect them.
You came to think like that because of your sisters, right?
Yes.
Your smile is so charming.
- He's got a dimple. - He's so cute.
(He's got a dimple.)
- Do you give him pocket money? - Of course I do.
- How much? - What?
Wait.
If he gets pocket money, he shouldn't be here.
Do you get paid a lot?
They have given me money.
- But not often. - For 10 favors,
I get paid 0.5 times.
- 0.5 times. - That's once in every 20 favors.
Why would you make it difficult?
My real sister gives me money quite often.
Does she?
But she hits me a lot too. And she makes me work a lot.
She hits him the most often.
So I would rather not do any chores...
and not get paid.
- Right. - That's better.
(I understand.)
Do you order him around a lot too?
- Yes. - What do you make him do?
I am different from my sisters. I ask special things.
- I make it fun. - How?
Here's an example.
Young Jin is a little gloomy.
And I want him to become more adventurous.
While video-chatting, I give him my gate password.
I make him figure out the direction to get somewhere.
I try to make it fun.
"Right!" I want him to have eureka moments.
- Eureka moments. - That's what I do.
So you are different from your sisters.
I am different. I rarely get upset at Young Jin.
Does she not get upset at you?
No.
Right. All right.
Is running an errand for her fun?
It's not fun. It's embarrassing.
- Why? - She makes me wear...
a Hawaiian shirt and sunglasses...
to go to a store to buy ramyeon.
- She tells you to wear that? - Yes.
- A Hawaiian shirt. - Why?
- Why do you do that? - Is it a punishment?
You have to wear a Hawaiian shirt and sunglasses...
and go buy stockings. Is that it?
I went to buy snacks.
But I ran into my friend, and I felt embarrassed.
- It seems like you're enjoying it. - No.
Why did you make him do that?
It's fun for him, and it's fun for me.
- It's only fun for you. - It's not fun for him.
He says it's not fun for him.
I am sorry.
The sixth sister is his real sister.
She makes him work the most, and she hits him the most.
- Yes. - But she pays him the most.
- She gives him pocket money. - Yes.
Does she pay you after you do a favor for her?
Or does she pay you after she hits you?
When does she give you money?
- She'd ask me to buy something. - Okay.
If the total amount is 4.80 dollars,
- And you get 20 cents as change. - she lets me keep the change.
- She's so great. - Oh, dear.
- She gives you 20, 30 cents. - How about other times?
- She sometimes gives me 2 cents. - 2 cents.
Do you consider 2 cents as the pocket money?
- No. - How do you feel when you get it?
(How does he feel when he gets 2 cents?)
"This is my life."
It's a 2-cent life.
What can you buy with 2 cents?
He thinks you make him work the most. What do you say?
I am sorry.
(He's happy with her apology.)
- They apologize very quickly. - Right.
In the letter, Young Jin mentioned...
- that she made him work... - He had a high fever.
when he was really sick.
How did you feel then?
My body was burning up,
and she made me get water. I told her I was sick.
She told me not to be a baby and get water for her. So I did.
I really hated it.
Why did you do that to him when he was burning up?
He's known for being a crybaby.
He must've skipped school because he was very sick.
I didn't know. I didn't know that he was really sick.
Do you admit that you often exaggerate pain?
No, I don't. She only hits pressure points.
- She only hits pressure points. - She hits pressure points.
- Where? - Where?
Sometimes, she punches the solar plexus. She hits here.
And she hits there.
- She sometimes hits there. - But...
- Where? - Where?
- She sometimes hits there. - But...
- The pressure point. - Yes.
The balls, you mean?
- Goodness. - Goodness.
That must've been humiliating.
It's been especially tough.
What's been so tough?
My mom is 41 years old.
As she had another baby late, there are more chores now.
What kind of chores do you do now?
I make the beds. I do the dishes.
I prepare meals.
- I do the laundry. - Do you cook?
- Did he say he cooks? - What else?
When the baby cries, I make him baby formula or change diaper.
- You know how to do that? - Goodness.
- Also... - He changes the diaper too.
the baby needs to bathe once a day.
I help her bathe the baby.
When my sister goes out,
the house is really messy.
- You tidy it up. - So I tidy it up.
When it's all tidy, Mom praises me, and it makes me feel happy.
But my sister doesn't praise me at all.
Sometimes, she pretends to have cleaned it...
- when actually I did it. - Gosh.
She tells Mom and tries to be praised.
- Goodness. - When I say I did it,
she says that I lying.
She pretends that she can't believe what I am saying.
(I am sorry.)
When I first heard him talk,
he sounded all cute. But now that I've heard about his day...
I feel bad.
- Me too. - Does she not help at all?
- You can say that. - Why doesn't she?
Why don't you help your brother? He works so hard.
It's not that I don't do any house chores.
I do it 3 out of 10 times.
But when it comes to things like folding laundry,
Young Jin is better than Mom.
He cooks rice really well too.
- He's too good. - I see.
You shouldn't do well.
Do you only cook rice? Or do you cook other dishes too?
- I'm sure he can't cook those. - I can't cook other things.
Were you trying to get him to come to your house?
As a butler.
- There's no one like him. - Right.
Let's talk to his mom.
Were you aware of his worry?
I've known it.
But I didn't think it was serious enough...
for him to send a letter here.
That means it's been really tough.
I leave home at 8am,
and I come home at 11pm.
So the kids are all alone at home.
I told my nieces to go to my place and take care of my kids.
I never knew they were ordering him around like this.
- Did you just find out? - Yes.
How do you feel right now?
I am shocked.
I...
(She becomes speechless.)
(The girls get scared.)
- That was intense. - Goodness.
- She overwhelmed the girls. - She glared at them.
Your sisters are crushed now.
Compared to the boys of his age,
he does too many chores, don't you think?
Even if I don't ask him to do it,
when I come home, he asks if he should make baby food or get water.
He comes and massages my legs.
He changes the baby's diaper too.
This is why he does it. You said you compliment him.
- Right. - Being complimented...
makes him want to do everything. It makes him happy.
But your sisters just make you work, so you are annoyed.
They pay you 2 cents.
Is there a reason why you make him do chores?
He gets all the love from our grandmother.
He's the youngest son.
- He's the youngest. - And he's the son.
The elders love sons, you know.
Even when I was pregnant, my grandmother grilled mackerel...
at 3am for Young Jin.
That's because he did homework until 2am.
No. Everyone was asleep.
Grandmother had to leave early in the morning.
She had to leave at 6am, so she was grilling the fish at 3am.
I asked her not to do it because it would smell bad.
But she yelled at me and said she would do it because he likes it.
So that made me think that it's okay to yell at him.
Grandmother loves him so much.
She only had granddaughters until he was born.
Then she fell in love with him.
The third sister...
agreed wholeheartedly.
Can you tell us more about it? Is it really like that?
Yes. It's really like that.
My sisters and I always say...
that Grandma is just Young Jin's grandmother.
- Young Jin's grandmother. - When she buys something...
I don't know if it's because we are so many.
She always secretly gives something to Young Jin.
Honestly, it hurts our feelings.
- Your feelings must get hurt. - We feel hurt.
It's been like that all your lives.
Yes, it's been that way all along.
Do you think that's why you're mean to him?
Yes. That's partly why.
Have you never got scolded by your grandmother...
for making him do chores?
She scolds us.
- Does she? - "Don't make him do chores!"
- "Don't make him work!" - You do it when she's not around.
Yes. She leaves early in the morning and comes home late.
What happens if you tell on them to your grandmother?
Even if I tell her, my sisters don't listen to her.
- So it's useless. - They don't listen to her.
Is your grandmother the only one who doesn't make you work?
She makes me work too.
(What a twist!)
What is that?
What's that? Everyone makes him work.
Is there any other problem with your sisters...
other than making you do a lot of chores?
They check my phone these days.
- Whose phone? - Your phone? Text messages?
Yes. They check my messages.
Why? Why do you check his messages?
We accidentally got a hold of his password,
so out of pure curiosity,
we checked his messages.
And it turned out he talks to a lot of girls.
So we checked the messages.
It seemed like a lot of girls like Young Jin.
They continuously contacted Young Jin.
Young Jin acts really cute to us.
He acts very cute. But when he treats other girls,
- he's... - Is he a manly man?
He's very blunt.
When they ask what he's up to, he says,
"Don't text me."
(Goodness)
And...
(He knows the game.)
(I am the star tonight.)
Goodness.
- He's cute. - And...
If there's something you want to tell them, this is your chance.
Don't get upset over small things.
I hope you will do what you can do.
They should handle things by themselves.
When I do you a favor, please thank me.
- Right. This is important. - This is important.
Tell your grandmother too.
Because of her biased love, your sisters give you a hard time.
Grandmother.
(Dear grandmother)
I hope you will love my sisters more than me.
So...
But don't hate me.
(He asks her not to hate him.)
I hope you will love all seven of us.
Ma'am, why don't you say something to your nieces?
Be harsh.
(She looks at them angrily.)
- She's upset. - Don't...
Don't hit my Young Jin. When you make him do chores,
make sure you thank him.
(She's not telling them to stop making him do chores.)
(Will it change anything?)
- Thank him and make him work. - Is it okay to make him work?
Even if I tell them not to, they won't change.
It's okay to make him do small chores.
- But hitting his head isn't right. - You shouldn't hit his head.
I hope you won't hurt his pride.
The fact that they all live together means that they're a happy family.
This happens because they are very close.
But hitting his head is bad.
- Is this a worry or not? - Let's start with Woo Hyuk.
I think...
it's not a worry.
How about you Ivy? From Young Jin's point of view.
I think it's not a worry.
So You.
I also think it's not a worry.
- Eui Woong. - He would think differently.
- I think it's a worry. - Right.
- Yes. - Yes.
It's a serious worry for me.
I am sure he's very stressed about it.
When the stress builds up, it can explode later.
It might affect Young Jin's personality.
The sisters reacted more...
when Eui Woong talked.
Why don't you tell them...
not to hit Young Jin's head anymore...
- and to thank him more? - She must like him a lot.
- His real sister loves Eui Woong. - She's his age.
What's her name?
Please don't be mean to Young Jin.
Don't hit Young Jin. When you ask him for a favor,
please say thanks to him.
All right.
(Please remember it.)
If you think it must have been tough for him, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Stop.
Why don't you say something as a representative?
Young Jin.
I am sorry. Thank you,
and I will try not ask you to do too many things now.
- All right. - Sisters,
why don't you...
thank Young Jin together? 1, 2, 3.
Thank you, Young Jin.
(He smiles.)
All right. Let's check how many votes he got.
Please show us how many votes he got.
(The result)
"Six Evil Sisters".
(The last digit is 6.)
- Is it 156? - What is it?
- It's 126. - 126.
It's not much.
I got teared up.
All right.
Hello, I am a housewife from Asan of South Chungcheong Province.
Do you take R-rated worries too?
It's embarrassing to say,
but after much consideration, I am sending this story.
- What could it be? - My husband is...
"Honey, you look sexy when you do the dishes."
"Stop it. I'm washing the dishes."
"You're foxy."
"The bed is ready. Should we have some fun?"
Whenever he sees me, he tries to jump on me.
It's driving me mad.
It's understandable if we're newlyweds.
We're a couple in their 40s who's been married for 14 years.
- 14 years. - "Honey, wake up."
"I'll give you a morning kiss."
"Your breath stinks! Come on!"
Goodness.
Even when we're watching TV... "Honey."
"The bed is ready."
Even when we are eating,
"Honey, the bed is ready."
The bed should be always ready.
Even my 13-year-old son said this.
"Dad, stop pestering Mom. Stop it."
"Hey! We are married. Go away."
He tries to touch me even in front of our son,
and it always makes me anxious.
Please put out...
his fire. This is the story.
(She's worried about her overly passionate husband.)
All right.
This show is for people 15 years and above.
So we need to mind our expressions.
It's happening within a family, so it's only natural.
- Please think with us. - Why...
doesn't your facial expression match what you're saying?
- It's... - Look at his ears.
Look at his ears.
(They are really red.)
Before I read the story, I saw the family coming in.
When I saw the husband,
I thought the story suits him perfectly.
- Right? - Right.
"The bed is ready." It suits him well.
Has she come here to brag?
Let's talk to her. Please come on out.
(Who is the lady worried about her overly passionate husband?)
Welcome.
(Kim Eun Joo)
(Welcome)
Did you not exaggerate it to be chosen to come out here?
Does your husband really touch you all the time?
- Yes. - She's come to brag.
He's too good.
What did you just say?
- Did she say he's too good? - Wait.
- He's too touchy. - Right.
He touches me all the time.
When he wakes up in the morning, he kisses me.
When you wake up, your mouth stinks.
- So I refuse him. - Wait.
It's not smacking the lips. Is it a French kiss?
- Yes. - Goodness.
It must be not nice for both of you.
- Really? - He does it as soon as he wakes up.
Even when he comes home, he follows me around in the kitchen.
He touches my hips and hugs me from the back.
Then he starts touching me.
Even when I watch TV, he lifts my skirt.
Goodness.
(Everyone is embarrassed.)
Every time our eyes meet, he goes,
"Honey, I made the bed."
"What should we do?" He shakes his hips.
When I refuse,
he lifts me up...
and throws me on the bed.
Don't women want their husbands to do that?
- It's like a scene from a movie. - He lifts you up.
Women want their husbands to carry them gently to bed.
- Does he really throw you? - He flings me.
- How many children do you have? - We have four children.
They are 13, 11, 8, and 6 years old.
They don't have a lot of children.
- Aren't four children a lot? - They could have had more.
He acts that way in front of the children.
Does he lift your skirt in front of the children?
- Yes. - My goodness.
He does it with the children watching.
That's the problem.
You should tell him, "Stop it."
"Why would you do this in front of the children?"
I do tell him that.
- What does he say? - He does it before the children.
- He says, "We are married." - "A married couple can do that."
"A married couple can do that."
(He doesn't see the gravity of the situation.)
Eun Joo visited it's a big worry for her.
- Let's meet the husband. Hello. - Finally!
- Finally, we meet the husband. - Hello.
He looks powerful.
He is like the Terminator.
(He has powerful looks.)
Does love well up in your heart when you look at your wife?
Yes, it does.
I am very fond...
of physical affection.
- Also... - His voice doesn't match his looks.
His voice is really gentle.
His voice doesn't match his looks.
"I am very fond of physical affection."
Don't judge me by my looks.
- I didn't expect that voice. - Okay.
We don't get to spend a lot of time together.
Both of us work.
When we are home, she is busy with the children.
If she isn't in the mood,
you shouldn't be persistent.
Both of you should be willing.
I get that she is physically exhausted,
but showing affection is much better for the children...
than fighting.
That's true.
You are bound to hold yourself back from time to time...
due to physical exhaustion.
There must be many days like that.
I never feel tired when it comes to that.
He is energetic every day.
(He is the Terminator.)
He doesn't feel tired.
Does he frequently act that way?
How many days in a week does he act that way?
- I think he is like that all day. - He is like that all day.
Is he like that all day and every day?
He acts that way in the morning and at night...
and on the weekend.
So he doesn't think to hold himself back the next day.
He doesn't act that way once in 2 or 3 days,
- but every day. - Yes.
This question strays a bit from the topic,
but what do you eat?
Why do you ask?
It stays from the topic.
- I bet the viewers are curious. - For goodness' sake.
All right.
(I won't tell you.)
While it's good to be affectionate in front of your children,
you shouldn't reveal...
too much of your love life.
We are family.
- What? - We are family.
You should be more careful around the family.
- We are family. - "We are family."
- You should be more careful. - The children are young.
- They aren't strangers. - No, they aren't.
I think they should be comfortable...
with these matters.
"Our children are the part of the family."
"Isn't showing affection better than fighting?"
Let's find out how the children think.
Hello.
- All right. - How cute!
(Hurrah!)
Hurrah!
- That's good. - He is full of energy.
- He is exactly like his dad. - He takes after his dad.
(Screaming)
My goodness.
(Anyone will be able to tell they are father and son.)
The first son.
Does your dad show physical affection...
on a daily basis?
Yes, he hugs Mom from behind...
when she is doing the dishes or household chores.
He kisses her continuously...
and touches her stomach and hips.
He lifts her up to show his strength.
How do you feel when he acts that way?
To be honest, I don't like it.
Mom doesn't seem to be enjoying it.
You don't like it since your mom finds it bothersome.
That's right. Mom doesn't like it.
What does the daughter think?
It makes me wonder what is wrong with Dad.
(It makes me wonder what is wrong with Dad.)
Mom gets annoyed...
and tells him to stop.
However, she gives up because he is persistent.
I would give up if I were in her position.
- She has a way with words. - I see.
In your opinion,
what behavior of your dad exhausted your mom the most?
Dad gets tired after work.
He takes it out on Mom...
by swearing at her.
When he does that, Mom endures it.
Seeing that makes me think about how much she is struggling.
- Wait a minute. - What was that?
That's a completely different issue.
It's unbelievable.
When he wants physical affection,
he shakes his hips and smiles as he approaches me.
Normally, he is easily irritated.
His behavior changes with his mood.
- He gets angry, too. - It must be hard.
Since I work, the dirty dishes sometimes pile up.
"When will you do the dishes?" He yells at me.
When I had my third child, I was eligible to hire a helper...
- for 50 dollars a month. - It's a system for families...
- with a lot of children. - That's right.
I asked my husband if I may hire a helper.
My husband said, "You can do everything by yourself."
I didn't know what to say.
- He makes snide remarks. - Yes, he does.
When children talk loudly during the meal,
he yells at them to be quiet.
When they spill food, he yells at them.
- He nags at them. - Yes.
It's more than nagging.
- He uses strong words. - He intimidates them.
Does he play with the children?
He plays with them from time to time,
but he doesn't control his strength.
Since he wrestles with them,
the children sometimes end up getting hurt.
When my son cries,
my husband says, "Stop being a wimp."
"It makes me look bad when you cry."
He yells.
(He is rough and short-tempered in all matters.)
He is rough.
I have something to say about the dishes.
When I go home,
no one welcomes me or asks me how my day was.
I have never heard those words.
As if I am a dog passing by, she does chores...
and the children keep their eyes on their cell phones.
When I enter the kitchen, I see a pile of dirty dishes.
There is no food. That's why I become angry.
Although you are constantly irritated,
you touch her a lot.
That's how I relieve stress.
That's how you relieve stress.
You don't do it out of love,
but as a way of relieving stress. That's problematic.
I am exhausted when I have to bring work home.
Then my husband shows his irritation.
He tells me to stop working.
- "If you are exhausted, quit." - That's right.
Sometimes, I eat late at night...
after putting the children to sleep.
It's a late dinner.
When I am eating, he approaches me and says,
"Why are you stuffing your face again?"
(He uses harsh words.)
- He yells at me. - My goodness.
He is extreme.
He has mood swings.
I can't believe you said,
"Why are you stuffing your face again?"
You shouldn't say that to your wife.
Even if I want to talk to her,
she has to lose sleep...
over work. It's frustrating.
Let's go over this.
On a regular basis, you intimidate her and throw a fit.
You say, "You are stuffing your face again."
"Quit work!"
Then you initiate physical contact.
Let's say you have a boss...
who constantly criticizes you.
"You did a lousy job."
He constantly hurts your feelings.
One day, he goes, "Let's go watch a movie together."
(It's the same situation.)
Would you like that?
A boss is a stranger.
- That's not the issue. - My goodness.
Do you think Eun Joo is obligated to endure everything...
because she is your wife?
When he talks to the others,
- he uses a gentle tone. - Like how he is now.
When he talks to me at home,
he uses harsh words as if I am his male friend.
- They hurt your feelings. - He speaks without thinking.
Why don't you use a gentle tone at home?
Is it because you are irritated?
My company melts aluminum.
- Since the weather is hot, - It's summer.
I sweat a lot.
I also skip dinner...
because I work from 8am to 8pm.
You work 12 hours.
My temper flares up...
because I am stressed out.
We understand that you are doing the hard work,
but there are a lot of people who get stressed out at work.
It doesn't give you the right to take it out on your wife...
and intimidate your children.
Why do you yell at your children?
That's how I educate them.
There is a saying that goes,
"Love secretly and scold openly."
They are dear at my heart.
(He shakes his head.)
When he said "They are dear at my heart",
his son shook his head.
You don't feel your dad's love.
No.
He doesn't feel it.
One time, we were watching TV...
after dinner.
He asked me who the singer is.
I told him, but he didn't hear me.
When I said it louder, he scolded me for yelling.
My little brother went on a picnic...
at the kindergarten.
He was excited upon return.
We were talking when he told us to be quiet...
and swore.
We get scared when he swears.
- Of course you do. - It's scary.
He treats Mom the same.
It doesn't feel good to see them fight...
- in front of us. - Of course it doesn't.
Fighting in front of the children is the worst.
He doesn't get angry much at his daughter, does he?
He does. He gets angry at me when I spill food.
- Children spill food. - It's a worry I have.
How does he scold you when you spill food?
"You aren't a child. Why are you spilling food?"
- You are a child. - You are a child.
If you keep it up, your children will say the same thing...
when you spill food in your 80s.
"You aren't a child. Why are you spilling food?"
My grandfather was very scary when I was growing up.
Because he always ordered me to eat fast,
I forced myself to swallow the food.
One time, I almost died when food got stuck in the airway.
The experience left me traumatized.
Listening to the children...
makes my hands shake...
- You are traumatized. - from the fear I felt in the past.
I think you should think about...
whether it is the right way to educate.
(Think about whether it is the right way to educate.)
What other struggles do you have?
Since he is a filial son,
he and I visit his parents on the weekend.
I have work to do on the weekend,
but I can't do them.
When I was sick and wanted to rest at home,
he asked me to visit his parents before going to the hospital.
I had to go.
He made you visit your parents-in-law first.
That's right.
Upon my release from the hospital after giving birth,
I had to go and visit my parents-in-law.
- You visited with a newborn. - Yes.
You shouldn't have made her do that.
You could have shown them the baby later.
You could have brought your parents to the house.
My father has trouble walking around.
My mother is old, too.
We must do our duties as the children.
You are right,
but your wife should have visited the hospital first...
when she was sick.
- That's right. - Eun Joo and I are young,
but my parents aren't.
It's good that you are filial,
but you make self-centered decisions and demand your family's compliance.
You make physical contact the way you want.
You scold children the way you want.
Even when your wife is sick, she has to visit your parents.
You should change your ways...
and become a little more gentle and kind.
She will be more accepting of physical contacts. Right?
- Wouldn't you be more accepting? - A little bit.
A little bit?
How do you relieve your stress?
(Sighing)
I bottle up...
- my emotions. - She suppresses them.
We had a relationship counseling when we had our second child.
I talked about everything I had bottled up...
and shed enough tears for a year.
You first said that...
you should show physical affection because it's good for the children.
However, you swear and throw a temper in front of them.
- It's bad for their education. - You are right.
Your words don't add up.
- I will fix my ways. - You know,
here is how you can have a good influence on the children.
Use a gentler tone...
when you talk to your wife and children.
It will help the most.
Which expression of love does your wife prefer?
She likes it when I give her a foot massage.
Eun Joo, which expression of love do you prefer?
Does a foot massage solve all issues?
- I want him to listen to me. - That's right.
I don't want him to get angry in front of the children.
I want him to speak gently as he is doing now.
Children, do you have anything you want to say to Mom and Dad?
Mom and Dad always fight in front of us.
I hope they would stop fighting and swearing so much.
They should stop altogether.
Children are the most affected when their parents fight.
Experts say it's as catastrophic...
- as a war. - He is about to cry.
It's as bad as cannons and missiles...
- to children. - It must have been hard on him.
It's devastating.
Something must have piled up in his heart every day.
Console your son.
Give him a hug.
Don't put him in a headlock.
Apologize to him.
(I am sorry, my son.)
How do you feel after seeing your son cry?
My heart aches.
- That's right. - I am sure it does.
Let's hear a few words from the daughter.
Do you have anything you want to say to your dad?
I want him to go out with us more often.
I also don't want him to take us to our grandparents too often.
I want him to treat us more warmly.
That's right.
Will you marry a man like your dad when you grow up?
She doesn't know what to say.
Her silence is the answer.
This is your last chance to say what you want.
Lim Chang Man.
Love your wife.
Love your children.
Please treat us with warmth.
(Please treat us with warmth.)
Let's start with Woo Hyuk.
I think it's a worry.
When I was little, my father was very strict.
He disciplined me a lot.
Even when he beat me, I thought to myself,
"Beating me must make his heart ache."
I worried about that.
Woo Hyuk, you were perfect even when you were little.
No one else would think that...
- when he is getting beaten up. - I had that thought...
because when I fell asleep in tears...
after the beating,
- he put ointment on my skin. - That's right.
It's like a textbook.
If you really love them,
you should change the way you discipline them.
It must be amazing to have a son like Woo Hyuk.
My daughter is in 4th grade and my son is in 1st grade.
My daughter was getting scolded by my wife.
Then I had to step in.
I said, "Why are you talking back to your mother?"
Then my son said, "Dad, I am doing my homework."
(His son appeared out of nowhere.)
(It's the power of genes.)
It must be amazing to have a son like Woo Hyuk.
I think it's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
What about you, Eui Woong?
I also think it's a worry.
If I may add, here is what I think love is.
I think becoming happy from seeing your loved one happy...
is true love.
My goodness.
Those are great words.
(His words are as beautiful as his face.)
If I had a daughter, I would have wanted her to marry him.
Please be considerate of Eui Woong.
It's just a wish.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Stop.
Stop.
Please say a few words to your wife.
I felt many things today.
Thank goodness.
I wanted to visit the show.
- Really? - Why?
Since we were fighting too often, I wanted to resolve a worry.
I wanted to hear...
- the audience and the judges. - The judge?
The judges?
He is a charming man.
He has a lot of merits.
Please say a few words to your wife.
How do you usually call her?
- Eun Joo. - What?
You call her by her name.
Eun Joo.
We came this far together.
I will fix my ways.
Let's settle our matters on our own...
without fighting in front of the children.
I love you.
All right.
He looks charming when he smiles.
- It looks very nice. - You should smile more.
Please show your smile more often.
How many votes did it receive? Show us the result.
"The Passionate Man".
It got over 100 votes.
There are 200 votes in total.
150 votes.
(150 votes)
All right.
Thus, "The Passionate Man" won.
You will receive prize money.
Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free,
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
("Can't Stop" by DIA)